Cultural differences in the Netherlands
Cultural Differences You Might Notice in the Netherlands (And Why That’s Okay)
Moving to a new country is always an adventure and the Netherlands is no exception. From bikes everywhere to birthday traditions that might surprise you, Dutch culture has its own rhythm. If you’re an Eastern European migrant worker starting a new life here, you might notice some things that feel… a little different.
Don’t worry, that’s completely normal. In fact, feeling a bit of culture shock means you’re learning and growing. And we’re here to help you feel right at home.
Let’s take a light-hearted but honest look at a few cultural differences you might run into and why they’re totally okay.
The Bike is King
In the Netherlands, people ride bikes everywhere. To work, to the supermarket, even on a night out. You’ll see parents biking with two kids and a dog, or businesspeople in suits pedalling to a meeting.
What might surprise you:
Bikes often have the right of way, even over cars. And Dutch people ride fast!
Why it’s okay:
You’ll get the hang of it. And chances are, we’ll provide you with a bike too. Just remember to lock it well, bike theft is common!
The Dutch are Direct
Dutch people are known for being very direct. They say what they think, even if it sounds blunt. You might hear things like, “Your idea doesn’t work” or “That’s not a good plan.”
What might surprise you:
It’s not rude, it’s cultural. The Dutch value honesty and see being direct as respectful.
Why it’s okay:
Once you get used to it, you might actually like it. You always know where you stand!
Birthdays
In the Netherlands, when it’s someone’s birthday, you congratulate everyone, not just the birthday person! You might hear “Gefeliciteerd!” said to friends, parents, even coworkers.
What might surprise you:
People often bring their own cake to work on their birthday. And you’re expected to celebrate them!
Why it’s okay:
It’s a sweet tradition (literally). Just go with it and enjoy the cake!
Dinner is early
Dutch families usually eat dinner around 6:00 PM, and meals tend to be simple: potatoes, vegetables, and a bit of meat. Lunch? Often just bread with cheese.
What might surprise you:
No soup, no big evening meal, no long table talks like in many Eastern European homes.
Why it’s okay:
You can still cook your favorite meals at home, and maybe introduce your new Dutch friends to some tasty food from back home!
Personal Space and Quiet
The Dutch like their privacy and quiet time. You might notice people keeping a bit of distance, or neighborhoods being very silent at night.
What might surprise you:
You could live next to someone for weeks without a real conversation, yet they’ll still greet you with a smile.
Why it’s okay:
It’s just their way. They’re friendly, just not always loud about it. Once you break the ice, Dutch people can be loyal, kind friends.
Different doesn’t mean wrong
Feeling confused or even frustrated by cultural differences is completely normal. But try to keep an open mind. Many migrant workers say that after a few months, the things that seemed strange at first become second nature (or even lovable).
And remember:
You don’t have to figure everything out alone. Our team is always here to support you. Whether you need help with paperwork or just someone to talk to.
So take a deep breath, hop on your bike, and enjoy the Dutch adventure. You’ve got this!
